PHONES: We heard about this and are pretty excited to pass it on.
It’s National Cell Phone Courtesy Month. The observance was created in 2002 by Jacqueline Whitmore, a Palm Beach, Fla., manners expert, to increase phone etiquette.
We wonder what she thinks now, some 17 years later?
Here are some recommended “dos and don’ts” from the National Day Calendar.
“Silence the phone whenever you’re spending time with anyone. That includes work, a meal, meeting or with family. If you are attending a performance of any kind, turn the phone off. There are exceptions to this rule for medical professionals or other expectant emergency situations.
“Hidden phones are forgotten phones. We pay attention to the people in the room, the performance, or the meeting. It’s also a signal to the people we are with that they are important to us.
“Step away if you do need to take a call. No one needs to hear your conversation while trying to enjoy a meal for two.
“Shhh. Monitor the volume of your voice. Even when you step away, voices carry.
“Don’t use your phone and drive. Many states prohibit cellular use or limit it to hands-free only. Any message can wait until you arrive at your destination. If it truly is urgent, pull to a safe stopping area to receive the message or call.
“Don’t let your mobile device become a social hindrance. We often look to our phone for social engagement when we don’t know what else to do. Meet new people when you are in a new circle of people and begin networking with the people near you. Expand your social circle face to face and broaden the world around you.”
Although we must admit, eavesdropping on loud cell phone conversations in public can be entertaining. We figure if people are rude enough to carry on that loud conversation in public, it must mean they want us to listen — and share our opinions on the topic at hand.